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A space for neuroatypicals, especially autistic or autistic-adjacent people, that centers our needs. Allistics must understand their place here. Self-dx is valid! No bigots, no fascists (no TERFs, no SWERFs). Message @zuggtmoy:matrix.org for an invite!33 Servers

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28 Jan 2021
@djkhalis:matrix.orgdjkhalisHad quite a rough day, I just wanna let you know that I'm grateful that you're all open to being vulnerable under a two-way anonymity cloak. We're not alone :) take care and I'm always a dm away 19:10:03
@DatseMultimedia:matrix.org@DatseMultimedia:matrix.orgYeah, and the comment about people expecting me to use antihistmines wasn't about dogs or cats. It was about people who can't wrap their head around, "no fragrances" means no fragrances.19:22:13
@DatseMultimedia:matrix.org@DatseMultimedia:matrix.org

I'd hope this is a safe space to share stuff like that. It's way more common than you'd think. Nothing really wrong with it. It can cause problems with teeth. But I honestly think one thing it does that's good teeth wise, is it keeps you from grinding your teeth, and quite honestly, there's no way that grinding your teeth doesn't cause problems...

And... Kinda speaking from experience. Both on the teeth thing, and the being able to relax into that kind of space...

19:24:46
@djkhalis:matrix.orgdjkhalis
In reply to @DatseMultimedia:matrix.org
Yeah, and the comment about people expecting me to use antihistmines wasn't about dogs or cats. It was about people who can't wrap their head around, "no fragrances" means no fragrances.
Oh god I don't have any fragrance sensitivities but it drives me mad as well that "no fragrance" has a fragrance of itself 😶
20:11:32
@djkhalis:matrix.orgdjkhalis invited @chih-hao_077936:matrix.orgchih-hao_077936.21:16:43
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29 Jan 2021
@DatseMultimedia:matrix.org@DatseMultimedia:matrix.orgYeah, a lot of the "no fragrance" or whatever, end up being a matter that they use it to mask the "bad smell" of the product.00:15:24
@chih-hao_077936:matrix.orgchih-hao_077936You probably need a respirator coated with charcoal, to stop any "smell" or scent from coming through.00:16:35
@zuggtmoy:matrix.orgcobaltwoof, okay, the server I was using before has been deleted wholesale and entirely so uhhhh back to my first account it is! 03:18:38
@DatseMultimedia:matrix.org@DatseMultimedia:matrix.org:(06:22:18
@DatseMultimedia:matrix.org@DatseMultimedia:matrix.orgDid you get notification so you could (and did) pull some data from the account you were using?06:22:45
@zuggtmoy:matrix.orgcobaltI did not! :D 06:46:42
@zuggtmoy:matrix.orgcobaltThe admin was probably super overloaded so I'm not too upset but being able to back up some stuff would have been nice 06:47:11
@djkhalis:matrix.orgdjkhalisWhat a bummer :/ would've been so pissed, I ask all the groups I'm in to send pictures of their pets (because I'm a creep) and some are just so precious 10:47:15
@chih-hao_077936:matrix.orgchih-hao_077936 You... get off at animals, djkhalis.....(?) 13:22:26
@djkhalis:matrix.orgdjkhalisHahah you'd think so 13:22:40
@djkhalis:matrix.orgdjkhalis(No I don't)13:23:04
@djkhalis:matrix.orgdjkhalisJust to clear the air hahah13:23:10
@chih-hao_077936:matrix.orgchih-hao_077936Why did you refer yourself as a "creep" then?13:23:22
@djkhalis:matrix.orgdjkhalisAh well I think it's quite strange to ask random people for cute animal pictures because it makes you happy13:24:29
@djkhalis:matrix.orgdjkhalisLike you don't often hear that from people you know hah13:24:45
@chih-hao_077936:matrix.orgchih-hao_077936😑13:24:57
@chih-hao_077936:matrix.orgchih-hao_077936You had me a bit worried there.13:25:03
@djkhalis:matrix.orgdjkhalisAyy no way, wouldn't abuse an animal in any way13:25:27
@chih-hao_077936:matrix.orgchih-hao_077936
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What a bummer :/ would've been so pissed, I ask all the groups I'm in to send pictures of their pets (because I'm a creep) and some are just so precious

With what you said, it's suggestive that you're going to do something with them.

If you said something like:
What a bummer :/ would've been so pissed, I ask all the groups I'm in to send pictures of their pets and some are just so precious.
I wouldn't think of anything else.

13:26:38
@djkhalis:matrix.orgdjkhalisOh goodness no. I realise now how it sounded and I'm terribly embarrassed .____. 13:27:31
@chih-hao_077936:matrix.orgchih-hao_077936Well, animals breed and copulate. Nothing unusual there.13:28:21
@djkhalis:matrix.orgdjkhalisWell yes there is! The power dynamic is just wrongg 13:28:58
@djkhalis:matrix.orgdjkhalisThey can't consent13:29:06
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