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18 Jan 2020
18:01:06@telegram_1043024649:t2bot.ioJeff Jadryev
In reply to @taigaforest:matrix.org
By the way, I pronounce DSPROG as dee sprog and it stands for duty, shame, punishment, reward, obligation, and guilt.
I heard you mention DSPROG three times in the posts I’ve read today. I’m wondering if you feel ashamed when you see your coworkers act this way? Are you looking for a better sense of belonging?
19:21:36@telegram_1043024649:t2bot.ioJeff Jadryev I am looking for an NVC empathy buddy for practicing empathic listening over video calls. I have been studying and practicing NVC for about four months. If you are interested please reply either here or via PM.

Have had one empathy call so far, found it fulfilling and am longing for more.

For further reading:

http://capitalnvc.net/TelephoneEmpathy
https://t.me/nvc_pe_eq/519 Jeff Jadryev, [Jan 12, 2020 at 18:14]
https://zenvc.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/Empathy-buddies.pdf
19 Jan 2020
04:36:57@taigaforest:matrix.orgtaigaforestJeff Jadryev: No shame at all when I see my coworkers use DSPROG. Anger, resentment, frustration.
04:38:35@taigaforest:matrix.orgtaigaforest
In reply to @taigaforest:matrix.org
Jeff Jadryev: No shame at all when I see my coworkers use DSPROG. Anger, resentment, frustration.
And compsssion for the kids.
04:42:40@taigaforest:matrix.orgtaigaforestI am interested in practicing empathic listening with you.
04:45:05@taigaforest:matrix.orgtaigaforestAnd a better sense of belonging would be nice, but also very important is enriching the lives of the kids.
15:21:58@m1rc0:matrix.orgMirco joined the room.
14:59:39@telegram_227241397:t2bot.ioMirco joined the room.
16:22:00@taigaforest:matrix.orgtaigaforest Jeff Jadryev: Did you send me the message "Please log in before inviting Telegram puppets."? I have no idea what that means. I don't even use Telegram.
15:00:05@telegram_49590540:t2bot.ioScotter Welcome, Mirco! πŸ™
15:07:34@telegram_227241397:t2bot.ioMirco Thanks for the welcome πŸ™‚. I joined bc @neoaboriginalis mentioned this group. I got in touch with NVC in different therapeutical settings in 2012, but never looked into it any further. I hope here I can find some wholesome inspiration :)
15:15:08@telegram_250853678:t2bot.ioMatiasWelcome Mirco! Glad to see here also ☺️
18:55:54@telegram_250853678:t2bot.ioMatias
In reply to @taigaforest:matrix.org
Jeff Jadryev: Did you send me the message "Please log in before inviting Telegram puppets."? I have no idea what that means. I don't even use Telegram.
Did one of you try to send a private message perhaps? Might be because of that.
18:57:19@telegram_250853678:t2bot.ioMatias Might require logging in with a Telegram account to the @matrix_t2bot before you can send PMs from Matrix to Telegram
18:59:12@telegram_250853678:t2bot.ioMatiasJeff is using Telegram and taigaforest is using Matrix :)
19:37:18@telegram_1043024649:t2bot.ioJeff Jadryev
In reply to Matias
Jeff is using Telegram and taigaforest is using Matrix :)
I appreciate this! I think it provides some needed clarity. πŸ™πŸ»
19:43:20@telegram_1043024649:t2bot.ioJeff Jadryev
In reply to @taigaforest:matrix.org
Jeff Jadryev: Did you send me the message "Please log in before inviting Telegram puppets."? I have no idea what that means. I don't even use Telegram.
I did not...not sure why you received that message.

I’m glad you are interested in trying empathic listening. I feel concerned about how to exchange contact information privately when you are using Matrix and I am using telegram.
19:43:58@telegram_1043024649:t2bot.ioJeff Jadryev
In reply to Mirco
Thanks for the welcome πŸ™‚. I joined bc @neoaboriginalis mentioned this group. I got in touch with NVC in different therapeutical settings in 2012, but never looked into it any further. I hope here I can find some wholesome inspiration :)
Welcome!
23:04:03@neoabo:disroot.orgneoaboriginal

You can join this room through the Telegram group from t.me/nvc_pe_eq

And through the matrix.org platform from various apps listed here https://matrix.to/#/#nvc:matrix.org

20 Jan 2020
01:51:46@taigaforest:matrix.orgtaigaforest Thank you Matias. Yes I am using Matrix/Riot. I am new to Matrix and I have never used Telegram. I don't know how a bridge works. Is this room a Matrix room or a Telegram room?
19 Jan 2020
23:07:32@telegram_250853678:t2bot.ioMatiasSo as an option for how to exchange contact info one of you could try the other platform. Or use a messenger, for example me. I am both Matias and neoaboriginal :)
20 Jan 2020
01:59:06@taigaforest:matrix.orgtaigaforest Jeff Jadryev: You can send an email to nvc@fastmail.fm
19 Jan 2020
23:17:30@telegram_250853678:t2bot.ioMatias
In reply to @taigaforest:matrix.org
By the way, I pronounce DSPROG as dee sprog and it stands for duty, shame, punishment, reward, obligation, and guilt.
Before reading the meaning of DSPROG here I thought it's probably something like Deep Shame Programming πŸ˜‚
20 Jan 2020
01:04:29@telegram_1043024649:t2bot.ioJeff Jadryev
In reply to Matias
So as an option for how to exchange contact info one of you could try the other platform. Or use a messenger, for example me. I am both Matias and neoaboriginal :)
After reading your offer to pass messages and the matrix.org website I feel thankful and relieved. Met my needs for ease and understanding. I felt mistrustful of the bridge to matrix until I learned more about it.
01:08:47@telegram_1043024649:t2bot.ioJeff Jadryev
In reply to Matias
Before reading the meaning of DSPROG here I thought it's probably something like Deep Shame Programming πŸ˜‚
After reading this I felt ashamed. I’m thinking β€œsounds like something I have.” πŸ˜•
01:55:19@telegram_132247010:t2bot.ioGun Rights Are Human Rights
In reply to @taigaforest:matrix.org
Thank you Matias. Yes I am using Matrix/Riot. I am new to Matrix and I have never used Telegram. I don't know how a bridge works. Is this room a Matrix room or a Telegram room?
It's both. There's a room/channel in both Telegram and Matrix. The bridge is essentially a bot that copies messages back and forth

If the bridge stops working, then we will have 2 separate rooms that have no connection to each other
01:55:31@telegram_132247010:t2bot.ioGun Rights Are Human Rights changed their profile picture.
14:17:20@taigaforest:matrix.orgtaigaforest Gun Rights Are Human Rights: Thanks for that explanation. It is very clear to me now.
09:42:34@telegram_250853678:t2bot.ioMatiasI'm delighted, happy and glad for this connection of Jeff and taiga through the bridge for the purpose of becoming empathy buddies. Fulfills my needs for meaningful, useful and purposeful hopes about the uses of such a bridge for connecting more people and conversations. 😊
21 Jan 2020
15:03:02@telegram_49590540:t2bot.ioScotterI want to thank all of you for contributing to this group! I think we are going to win this 😜

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